At first, the idea of it did bother me. But I began to realize that to me, at least, that's not even the issue.
When talking about this groundbreaking facility, many people - both those who are pro-choice and pro-life - focus primarily on the abortion aspect. The fact that it's opening a door, albeit a small one, to women who want to 'birth outside the box' has pretty much gotten lost in the discussion.
Some articles, like this one, do touch on the birth aspect but in a very general sense. Of course the writers at Cosmo probably have no idea what it's like to give birth here. But this area, which comprises an eleven-county region, has, according to the Yellow Pages, at least six facilities that offer abortion, which no doubt translates into dozens of care providers. How many freestanding birth centers do we have in the area? One. How many in the entire state? Three.
Three freestanding birth centers in the entire state.
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I'm sure it wouldn't be hard to find a number of pro-choice people who think home birth is dangerous, VBACs are reckless, and that hospital birth is the safest option for pregnant women. The sheer volume of abortion facilities tells me that even with limitations, there is probably more access to abortion than there's ever been.
However, if you're giving birth in Western New York, you may have obstacles depending on what kind of birth you want. While Buffalo is indeed a major city, there are also outlying rural areas that are up to an hour away from the city. One hospital has gone on record as saying they'd "get a court order at 2 a.m." if they had to, to prevent you from having a VBAC, but it's hard to say if that's true or just a scare tactic. If you're giving birth in that hostile environment, you may not be emotionally strong enough to take that chance.
Other options include a home birth, which not everyone is totally comfortable with. I know some who've birthed in their midwife's home close to the hospital, but again, the midwife can only see so many patients.
I've heard people say they labored in the parking lot outside the hospital, knowing they'd be hooked up to monitors if they went in too early. Others willingly drive an additional 45 minutes to an hour away in another county to give birth at a "friendlier" hospital with a lower cesarean rate (but a much higher rate of births attended by midwives). Judging from the data, it's quite clear in a number of areas that evidence-based practices are not being performed.
So far several of our hospitals still allow VBAC, but in my experience it was hard to find overwhelming support from doctors (and even midwives) when choosing one (and the numbers speak for themselves). Many women, I'm sure, are easily swayed not to even bother attempting one if their doctor isn't enthusiastic about it. Besides myself, I know only a handful of women who've VBACed. The rest just look at you like you're crazy.
Why? One reason is likely because of inductions. That one act - inducing labor - can trigger a domino effect that can make your chances of vaginal birth slim, at least around here. I've known women who were induced simply because of their geographical distance from the hospital, with the doctor joking, "You don't want to give birth on the New York Thruway."
Here's how a few facilities in the Western New York region (which comprises eleven counties) stack up: (For the sake of boredom we'll look at two counties.)
A rather alarming episiotomy rate (that was 42.9% in 2011). "We don't often deliver babies, but when we do, they're mostly by c-section." |
It's such a hurdle, to essentially change the birth climate of an entire city, and even more so, the entire region - and like anything else, when change finally happens, it's often painstakingly slow. I bet most women in need of an abortion would know where to find one, but for a normal, let alone natural birth, they'd probably have to search, maybe even fight for it. With the overwhelming number of clinics throughout the state (New York City alone has dozens) that serve those who wish to have an abortion, it still seems clear that that is their primary focus, not how to have a happy childbirth. If we're going to recognize reproductive rights, we can't ignore the needs of the laboring mother.
For access to the maternity data to all New York hospitals, including the ones listed here, click here: http://www.health.ny.gov/statistics/facilities/hospital/maternity/
ReplyDeleteI get the Minnesota Women's Press (feminist periodical) sometimes, and there's rarely anything in it that pertains to my current life as a mother. For every ad that relates to children or family, there are at least five ads for vets and other pet-related services. Partly that reflects their readership (older women past childbearing), but it does also show a definite feminist disregard for the needs of mothers and babies and families. Reproductive rights to them means not being mothers and not having babies. Or, if you really really must, only having one or two babies and then leaving that phase of life behind you ASAP as you charge ahead to do your "real work".
ReplyDeleteEven in church, the instructions given in the Bible, Titus chapter 2, for older women to give younger women help in learning how to have and manage children and households, is generally ignored. We're one of the largest families now in our church, with four children, and I've had to look elsewhere (online) to figure out how to (sort of) keep things going. We're not a two-child family any more, so a lot of the so-called solutions just won't work for us!
Then, there are so few SAHMs here that I don't even know where the nearest one lives. This has been true for my entire childbearing career, except for when we lived in an apartment, where there was one other mom--but I only ran into her a grand total of three times.
I've been reading a lot of Francis and Edith Schaeffer lately--they are from a while back, but they saw this whole hostility to mothers and children coming, and they traced it straight back to its rotten philosophical roots.
I'm rather disturbed at the casually dismissive attitude regarding women needing abortion services in this country; in particular I was nettled at the comment, "I bet most women in need of an abortion would know where to find one".
ReplyDeleteThere are now a total of three locations in the entire State of Texas where a woman might obtain a legal abortion.
That's right. Three. For a state with an estimated population of 26,448,193; roughly SIX MILLION of whom are women of childbearing age.
I know that's not "most people", but I know I don't want my experiences discounted solely because I'm not "most people".
While there is undoubtedly more focus on the issue of abortion than there is on the topic of birth choices, that is not a legitimate reason to dismiss or disparage the issue so callously.
I myself am beyond the need of birth or abortion services, but should my daughter ever require an abortion, I have no confidence that she could obtain one legally here in Texas. There's no need to kick dirt on one women's issue in order to boost the importance of another one; there's plenty of room to spread the outrage.
Well, accordion to reports I've read it's six, not three (not that that's much better) and those closed had substandard conditions. Is offering unsafe, potentially dangerous or life-threatening care better than none at all?
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